Mark 10 – Jesus and Marriage

Mark 10:1-12 is a passage that can stir up a lot of questions and feelings, especially for young people figuring out life and relationships. It’s about Jesus’ teaching on marriage and divorce, and it’s pretty intense. Let’s unpack it together.

Jesus’ Teaching

Jesus is confronted by the Pharisees, religious leaders always trying to test him. They ask him a loaded question: Is it lawful for a man to divorce his wife? They want to trap him into contradicting either Moses’ law or God’s original plan for marriage.

Jesus’ answer blows them away. He reminds them that Moses’ law allowing divorce was a concession to their “hardness of heart.” In other words, it wasn’t God’s ideal plan. God’s design from the beginning was for marriage to be a lifelong, unbreakable bond between one man and one woman (Genesis 2:24).

Jesus then drops the mic with this statement: “Whoever divorces his wife and marries another commits adultery against her.” He says the same thing about a woman who divorces and remarries. This is a radical teaching in a culture where divorce was easy and common.

Later, in a more private setting, Jesus’ disciples ask him to explain this teaching further. He reiterates that divorce and remarriage are adultery, going against God’s original plan for marriage.

What Does This Mean for Us?

This passage can be tough to swallow. It challenges us to think about what marriage really means. Is it just a piece of paper, a contract you can break if things get hard? Or is it something deeper, a sacred covenant before God?

For those who have experienced the pain of divorce, this passage can raise difficult emotions. It’s important to remember that God is a God of love, forgiveness, and new beginnings. If you’re hurting, don’t be afraid to seek his healing and guidance.

Study Questions

1. What do you think Jesus meant when he said Moses allowed divorce because of the “hardness of heart”?
2. Why do you think Jesus’ teaching on divorce was so radical in his culture?
3. How does this passage challenge your views on marriage and relationships?
4. What are some practical ways we can honour God’s design for marriage in our lives?
5. If someone has experienced divorce, how can we offer support and encouragement based on this passage?

Let’s have an open and honest conversation about these questions. Remember, God’s Word is a light to guide our path, even when the path gets bumpy.

Disclaimer: This commentary is not intended to be a comprehensive theological treatise. It is a simplified explanation for young people, aiming to spark discussion and deeper understanding of this passage.

Note: If you are struggling with issues related to marriage or divorce, it’s important to seek guidance from a trusted pastor, counsellor, or mentor.