Mark 8:34-38: The Cost of Following Jesus

In this passage, Jesus lays out a challenging truth for those who want to be his disciples. He tells them it’s not about fame, fortune, or comfort. It’s about self-denial, sacrifice, and a willingness to lose everything for him.

What did Jesus say?

Jesus called the crowd together with his disciples and said, “Whoever wants to be my disciple must deny themselves and take up their cross and follow me. For whoever wants to save their life will lose it, but whoever loses their life for me and for the gospel will save it. What good is it for someone to gain the whole world, yet forfeit their soul? Or what can anyone give in exchange for their soul? If anyone is ashamed of me and my words in this adulterous and sinful generation, the Son of Man will be ashamed of them when he comes in his Father’s glory with the holy angels.”  

What does this mean for us?

Jesus’ words might seem harsh, but they are a call to true discipleship. He’s not saying we should live miserable lives, but rather that we should be willing to prioritise him above everything else.

Here’s a breakdown of what Jesus is saying

• Deny yourself: This means letting go of our selfish desires and ambitions. It’s about putting God’s will above our own.
• Take up your cross: This doesn’t mean we should seek out suffering, but rather that we should be willing to endure hardship for the sake of Christ. It’s about accepting the challenges and sacrifices that come with following him.
• Follow me: This is a call to complete surrender to Jesus’ leadership. It’s about trusting him with our lives and obeying his commands.

Why is this important?

Jesus is saying that true life is found in him. We can try to gain the whole world, but if we lose our soul in the process, it’s all for nothing. Our relationship with God is the most important thing in our lives.

Study Questions

1. What does it mean to deny yourself? Can you think of any specific examples of how you can do this in your own life?
2. What does it mean to take up your cross? What are some challenges you might face as a Christian?
3. Why do you think Jesus says that those who lose their life for him will save it? How is this possible?
4. What are some things that people in today’s world might prioritise over following Jesus?
5. Why is it important to not be ashamed of Jesus and his words?
6. How can we apply this passage to our lives today?

Challenge:

Take some time this week to reflect on your own commitment to following Jesus. Are you willing to deny yourself, take up your cross, and follow him no matter the cost? Ask God to give you the strength and courage to be his true disciple.