The Parable of the Prodigal Son

The Older Son

In the parable of the Prodigal Son (Luke 15:11-32), the older son’s annoyance stems from a few key factors:

1. Unfairness: He feels his father has treated him unjustly. He has remained faithful and dutiful, working hard and never disobeying his father’s commands. Yet, he has never received the same level of celebration or recognition as his brother who squandered his inheritance.
2. Resentment: The older son resents his brother for his reckless behaviour and the consequences it brought upon the family. He likely had to pick up the slack and work harder to compensate for his brother’s absence and irresponsible choices.
3. Entitlement: He feels entitled to special treatment because of his perceived righteousness and obedience. He sees the celebration for his returning brother as a personal affront and a disregard for his own dedication and loyalty.
4. Lack of Understanding: The older son lacks understanding of his father’s unconditional love and forgiveness. He views his relationship with his father as transactional, expecting rewards for his obedience rather than appreciating the inherent value of their relationship.

God’s Answer (The Father’s Response):

The father’s response to the older son is filled with grace, compassion, and understanding:

1. Affirmation: The father reaffirms his love and appreciation for his older son, reminding him that “everything I have is yours.” He acknowledges the older son’s faithfulness and recognises his value as a son.
2. Invitation: The father invites the older son to join the celebration, emphasising that the joy is not just for the returning son but for the entire family. He wants his older son to participate in the restoration and reconciliation that has taken place.
3. Explanation: The father explains the reason for the celebration, highlighting the significance of repentance and forgiveness. He clarifies that the celebration is not a reward for the younger son’s wrongdoing but a recognition of his return to the family and a restoration of their relationship.
4. Unconditional Love: The father’s response demonstrates the depth of his love for both sons. He doesn’t condone the younger son’s actions but welcomes him back with open arms. Similarly, he doesn’t scold the older son for his anger but gently encourages him to embrace forgiveness and join in the celebration.

The parable ultimately teaches us about God’s unconditional love, forgiveness, and desire for reconciliation. It challenges us to examine our own hearts and ask ourselves if we are willing to extend grace and forgiveness to others, just as God has extended it to us.