Ruth Chapter 3:1-5 – A Bold Plan for a Better Future

Background: Ruth and her mother-in-law Naomi are struggling to survive in a new land. Naomi sees potential in Boaz, a wealthy relative, to not only provide for Ruth but also to continue the family line.

Verse 1: Then Naomi her mother-in-law said to her, “My daughter, shall I not seek security for you, that it may be well with you?”

• Naomi’s love and concern for Ruth’s well-being are evident. She is not content to let Ruth struggle alone but actively seeks a solution.
• “Security” in this context refers to more than just financial stability. It implies a stable home, family, and future.

Verse 2: “Is not Boaz our relative, with whose young women you were? Behold, he is winnowing barley tonight at the threshing floor.”

• Naomi strategically mentions Boaz’s connection to them and his current activity.
• Winnowing was a late-night activity, and the threshing floor was often a secluded place.

Verse 3: “Wash therefore and anoint yourself, put on your best garment and go down to the threshing floor; but do not make yourself known to the man until he has finished eating and drinking.”

• Naomi instructs Ruth to prepare herself physically and present herself in the best possible light.
• The instruction to not reveal herself immediately adds an element of mystery and intrigue.

Verse 4: “Then it shall be, when he lies down, that you shall notice the place where he lies; and you shall go in, uncover his feet, and lie down; and he will tell you what you should do.”

• This verse is the most controversial and requires careful interpretation. It’s important to note that cultural norms and customs were different then.
• Naomi’s advice is bold and unconventional, demonstrating her determination to secure a future for Ruth.

Verse 5: “Then she said to her, ‘All that you say to me I will do.'”

• Ruth’s trust in Naomi and her willingness to follow her advice, even if it seems strange, is remarkable. She is courageous and determined to improve her situation.

Study Questions

1. What does this passage reveal about Naomi’s character and her love for Ruth?
2. What does “security” mean in this context, and why was it so important for women in that time?
3. Why do you think Naomi chose the threshing floor and the middle of the night for this encounter?
4. What are some possible interpretations of Naomi’s instructions in verse 4?
5. What does Ruth’s response in verse 5 show about her character and her relationship with Naomi?
6. How does this passage challenge our understanding of cultural norms and customs?
7. What lessons can we learn from Ruth and Naomi’s courage and determination?

This passage offers valuable insights into the challenges faced by women in ancient times, the importance of family and community, and the courage to take bold steps in pursuit of a better future.